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Starting a conversation with your parents about Extra Care living can feel daunting. It’s a topic filled with emotions, concerns about independence, and practical considerations. At Standon Gardens, we understand these challenges and are here to guide you through this important discussion with empathy and clarity.
Understanding Their Perspective
Many older adults fear that moving into Extra Care housing means losing their independence. They may worry about being forced into a decision or feel that accepting help signifies a loss of control. Recognizing these feelings is the first step in having a meaningful conversation.
Approach with Empathy and Patience
Choose a comfortable setting and time to talk. Begin by expressing your concerns for their well-being and your desire to support their independence. Use open-ended questions to invite them to share their thoughts and feelings.
- Listen actively: Allow them to express fears and concerns without interruption.
- Validate their feelings: Acknowledge their emotions and reassure them that their independence is respected.
- Provide information: Share details about Extra Care living, emphasising the balance between support and autonomy.
Addressing Common Concerns
It’s natural for parents to have questions about safety, the level of care, and the financial implications of Extra Care housing. Be prepared to discuss:
- Safety measures: Explain the 24/7 support and emergency systems in place.
- Flexible care options: Highlight that additional support can be arranged if their needs change.
- Financial aspects: Discuss the benefits of renting, such as reduced maintenance responsibilities and predictable costs.
Introducing Standon Gardens
At Standon Gardens, we offer rental-only Extra Care apartments designed to provide both independence and support. Our residents enjoy private living spaces, communal areas for socializing, and tailored care services to meet individual needs.
Next Steps
Invite your parents to visit Standon Gardens to experience the community firsthand. Seeing the environment and meeting staff and residents can alleviate fears and provide a clearer picture of what life in Extra Care housing entails.
For more information or to schedule a visit, please contact Ryan Jefferies at 01827 65900. We’re here to support you and your family every step of the way.
For additional guidance on discussing housing options with older adults, visit Age UK’s Housing Options.